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The choice of location – whether it’s a house, hotel, or dedicated venue – makes a huge difference in who attends and the overall vibe.”
Q: You mentioned diversity. I’ve also noticed it’s more than just race and body types. They’re often in awe, describing it as an out-of-body, out-of-mind experience. The level of intimacy and comfort was unparalleled.
The orgasm was unlike anything I’d ever experienced before – it was intense, almost out-of-body, with uncontrollable shaking.
A: “The pandemic has significantly impacted socialization in our community. Venues in known LGBT areas make people feel more comfortable, but you miss out on a large group of guys who consider themselves straight.
But reading about Rainy City Jacks opened my eyes to more organized events.”
Q: What are your top three bate clubs, and why do they stand out?
A: “The top three when it comes to diversity are Seattle’s Rainy City Jacks, New York City Jacks, and [Bator Bro in] London. My ex and I even threw larger parties with up to 35 people in hotel rooms.
There are various dynamics at play, including cultural factors and the need for discretion. Before that, I used to organize small groups myself, hosting 10-11 people at my apartment. Many express surprise, saying things like, “Wow, I’ve never let a guy touch me like that before.”
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It was fascinating and even more of a turn-on.As a person of color, seeing representation in a club matters. These scenes are typically not held in studio spaces, which can make them feel different from other organized events. This group was predominantly African American and catered to what they called “beefy” guys – men with larger, muscular builds.
Q: What’s the vibe like?
A: These events often attract men who identify as “DL” or “down low.” This can include men who have wives or children, or who aren’t out in the community.
It’s understandable why some people might want their own space where they feel more comfortable. I’ve noticed that when the space is open, without many separate rooms or cubby holes, groups interact more. It’s fascinating how different each experience can be. These events often take place in private homes, specified spaces, or even parks.
It’s incredible to witness someone be submissive and let their imagination take over. There’s often an element of discretion due to community stigma. The bar scene has changed – people don’t chat up strangers like they used to. It’s filling a social void that the pandemic has left behind.”
Q: Do you have a memorable bate story to share?
A: “I had an incredible one-on-one experience with a guy I met.