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It quite surprised me to know she was not a girl but since I was enjoying the chat with her, I didn’t´t mind and kept chatting with him. I had no idea.

On the front was a picture of the singing duo Chasand Dave.

Did you enjoy reading this post? After all, unlike my straight friends, it was still illegal for me (as a gay man) to have sex with a same-sex partner until I was 21.

Precisely one week later, I waited patiently for the postman to arrive.

When my first copy of Gay News came through the letterbox, I rushed downstairs before anybody else got to the post.

I was relieved that the people at Gay News did as they had promised to do in their advertisement. I felt comfortable, loved and cared about. I never associated what we did with the idea of ‘gay’.

reddit first gay experience

I still preferred to spend Saturday evenings indoors watching television like I did on Saturday mornings.

My parents thought it unusual for a boy my age to want to stay in on a Saturday evening. Years later, I discovered my mother had already suspected I was gay.

Whereas boys my age were going out to drink alcohol and date girls, my Saturday evening treat was the snacks (including a small trifle from Marks & Spencer) and Saturday evening television.

I always visited the same shops to browse or buy something.

In fact, I had absolutely no concept of hetero- vs. I didn’t particularly like their music, but I found both men sexually attractive. Click the link below to be taken to the first post.

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At the time, I thought they knew nothing about why I did not want to go out. I just spoke a little bit with her and then I asked about the meaning of the “cd” on her nickname and then she told me – crossdresser.

I was a bit shocked at first because even though I have never been homophobic. Contact me if you’d like to share the details in a guest post.

No way. I always got up first because I’m an early bird.

After breakfast, I’d sit down and watch Multi-Coloured Swap Shop – a children’s TV show on Saturday morning. I have met more guys since then but I will always remember him because he was the first one and also the one who changed me because now I am not a completely straight man anymore, and hopefully not a jerk either.

Did you ever experiment?
June 2, 2007 11:57 PM   Subscribe

Is it common for men to 'experiment' as boys?


I (male) had my first gay experience when I was around 12 years old.