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They married and lived in Bellmore and Wantagh, NY for the next 20 years.


Edna moved to Shawnee KS in 1977 with Jack.


Edna preceded in death by, her Mother, Frances (Rosik) Kassel and her father Edward Kassel, her husband Jack, sisters Joan Kassel Market of Seaford, NY and Mildred Kassel Burns of Hempstead, NY.

She is survived by her son Gregory of Rantoul, KS and Kenneth of Overland Park, KS. Her sister, Barbara Kassel Leone and husband Louis of Live Oak, FL.


Memorial Service will be at Amos Funeral Home 10901 Johnson Dr. in Shawnee Kansas 66203, 913-631-5566, Friday January 28, 2022. Complications from Alzheimer’s and Cancer took Edna. Soon she became forgetful.

Edna met Jack (they were “Jack & Ed”) at Rockaway Beach and would enjoy time at the beach and Coney Island. Ed & Jack and the Kids spent every summer on the water, in a boat or at the beach.
Please indicate this donation is for: “Chucks Place”. The Gay family would then spend most of their summers in Greenport. Edna grew up in Queens and Greenport, NY.

Her father was an electrician in the city he was called to build Non-Metallic Mine Sweepers for WW2 in Greenport.

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Good Shephard Hospice provided excellent end of life care. Though Edna Gay may have slipped beyond the veil of mortality, her essence lingers like a faint fragrance in the air, a lingering reminder of the beauty and complexity of the human experience.

She was predeceased by: her parents, Sherman Conger and Anna Crozier Conger; her husband Francis W.

Carling; and her daughters, Francine Olmstead and Tammy Singleton.

She is survived by: her daughters, Debbie Peysar (Glen) and Vickie Shepherd (Steve).

Edna F. Gay

Edna Frances Kassel Gay, age 93, formerly from Wantagh NY and Shawnee KS, passed away on January 21, 2022. Scott Averill, (Owner) has a passion for helping the memory challenged.

Edna was born on December 2, 1928 in New York City (Brooklyn) to Edward and Frances Kassel. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Edna Gay Carling to show support.

In the soft embrace of remembrance, we recall the profound impact Edna Gay had on those she encountered along her journey. She lived a long healthy life.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Francis; daughters, Francine Olmstead and Tammy Singleton; her parents; and her siblings. 

Graveside services will be held on Wednesday, December 4, 2024, at 11 a.m. They enjoyed 37 years together before Francis passed away on August 19, 1992. 

She was a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and served faithfully in her callings. 

Gay worked as a Court Clerk for the State of Utah for several years before retiring. 

She enjoyed sewing, working on puzzles, cooking and baking, crocheting, and traveling.

He took a job in Edwardsville, KS. They quickly made friends and enjoyed playing Bridge in several groups in the area. at Lindquist’s Memorial Gardens of the Wasatch, 1718 Combe Rd. Friends may visit with family on Wednesday from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. Scott stepped up to visit Edna daily when COVID prevented visits from the family.

Edna enjoyed entertaining and shopping!! at Lindquist’s Ogden Mortuary, 3408 Washington Blvd. 

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EDNA GAY - people search, genealogy, find deceased relatives and locate ancestorsNameSSN Date of birthDate of deathLivedStateZip Code (Last Residence)Zip Code (Lump Tax payment)EDNA GAY
032-14-9087October 10, 1892March 1, 196774 years01863 EDNA E GAY
459-86-4008January 9, 1889February 15, 197081 yearsTX75077 (Copper Canyon, Denton County) EDNA GAY
302-24-4256November 7, 1880August 1, 197089 yearsOH43832 (Newcomerstown, Tuscarawas County) EDNA GAY
008-34-3182October 4, 1888October 1, 197384 yearsVT05032 (Bethel, Windsor County) EDNA GAY
463-34-7201February 18, 1912March 1, 197462 yearsTX77019 (Houston, Harris County) EDNA GAY
416-12-4168December 29, 1901April 1, 197573 yearsTX77702 (Beaumont, Jefferson County) EDNA GAY
223-52-3550June 23, 1890November 1, 197585 yearsVA23487 (Windsor, Henrico County) EDNA GAY
078-10-7977November 28, 1902April 1, 197673 yearsMA01002 (Amherst, Hampshire County) EDNA GAY
441-64-3827April 30, 1893November 1, 197683 yearsOK74050 (Oakhurst, Tulsa County) EDNA GAY
564-30-9565August 5, 1889February 1, 197787 yearsCA94558 (Napa, Napa County)94558 (Napa, Napa County) EDNA GAY
124-18-3869December 23, 1902October 1, 197774 yearsNY12303 (Schenectady, Schenectady County)12303 (Schenectady, Schenectady County) EDNA GAY
026-40-1379June 8, 1900December 1, 197777 yearsMA01069 (Palmer, Hampden County) EDNA GAY
427-90-3547January 2, 1887August 1, 197992 yearsMS39501 (Gulfport, Harrison County) EDNA GAY
533-24-8608February 1, 1905May 1, 198075 yearsWA98011 (Bothell, King County) EDNA GAY
403-34-4456December 27, 1912August 1, 198471 yearsKY40342 (Lawrenceburg, Anderson County) EDNA GAY
545-34-7809November 26, 1921June 1, 198765 yearsCA94580 (San Lorenzo, Alameda County) EDNA C GAY
420-38-7333June 18, 1913March 6, 199076 years EDNA P GAY
543-20-6359March 1, 1899May 1, 199091 years EDNA GAY
509-09-3641May 26, 1902August 9, 199088 years EDNA B GAY
340-46-0644November 12, 1902March 18, 199188 years EDNA F GAY
226-46-9953January 2, 1900November 11, 199292 yearsVA22180 (Vienna, Fairfax County) EDNA GAY
074-26-6540January 30, 1916December 1, 199276 years1308213082 EDNA S GAY
242-12-7968July 10, 1911February 21, 199381 yearsNC28806 (Asheville, Buncombe County) EDNA R GAY
159-24-8064May 15, 1925July 1, 199368 yearsPA15214 (Pittsburgh, Allegheny County) EDNA H GAY
125-10-5167March 7, 1898July 3, 199496 yearsOK74801 (Shawnee, Pottawatomie County) EDNA T GAY
045-18-0466June 25, 1908July 26, 199486 yearsCT06451 (Meriden, New Haven County) EDNA A GAY
532-50-0411July 25, 1906January 27, 199689 yearsWA99111 (Colfax, Whitman County) EDNA E GAY
486-16-9973August 15, 1902October 16, 199694 years63139 EDNA L GAY
070-32-9737February 12, 1908November 16, 199890 yearsNY12572 (Rhinebeck, Dutchess County) EDNA M GAY
408-10-3313August 6, 1902January 20, 199996 years37211 EDNA GAY
382-28-1804September 11, 1910May 29, 199988 yearsFL33764 (Clearwater, Pinellas County) EDNA C GAY
244-12-2816July 6, 1922November 16, 199977 yearsVA23325 (Chesapeake, Northampton County) EDNA C GAY
244-36-3633December 8, 1923August 8, 200177 years EDNA H GAY
554-01-0514September 23, 1906April 11, 200396 yearsCA90621 (Buena Park, Orange County) EDNA F GAY
042-28-5673January 9, 1915May 4, 200388 years03774 EDNA S GAY
252-48-0006December 29, 1918April 27, 200586 years39851 EDNA M GAY
587-05-9580December 26, 1916May 14, 200588 yearsNY14609 (Rochester, Monroe County) EDNA D GAY
570-34-8251October 19, 1919May 13, 200686 yearsID83719 (Boise, Ada County) EDNA E GAY
350-40-4481October 12, 1948June 3, 200657 yearsIL60621 (Chicago, Cook County) EDNA GAY
048-22-7698July 8, 1928October 23, 200880 yearsCT06052 (New Britain, Hartford County) 
Edna Gay leaves behind memories cherished by the community.

She spent most of her childhood summers there.